Friendship by Dinah Maria Mulock Craik
I love this poem and I’ve been meaning to post it for a while. I just found it on my computer, so here it is…
Friendship
By Dinah Maria Mulock Craik
Oh, the comfort—the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person,
Having neither to weigh thoughts,
Nor measure words—just as they are—
Chaff and grain together—
Certain that a faithful hand will
Take and sift them—
Keep what is worth keeping—
And with the breath of kindness
Blow the rest away.

This is an amazing poem that has meant a lot to me, thanks for posting it!
This outstanding poem was given to me 25 years ago by a very, very special friend. It has never left me and has only given me peace when the world would otherwise be too tough.
This is one of my favorite poems. I love its utter simplicity, and very vivid image of grain in the hand.
I thought this poem was by James Fenton!?
I first read the poem in an older edition of Best Loved Poems of the American People, and it was attributed to Craik. A quick online search just now returned attributions to both Craik and George Eliot, though not with a verifiable source. Fenton’s name didn’t come up.